Frustrated Wife: I Keep Catching My Husband Looking For Escorts & Online Relationships

A frustrated wife is looking for answers after she caught her husband seeking online relationships.  This isn't the first time she's caught him and, from the sounds of it, it's not going to be the last time either.

The woman has repeatedly bought his apologies, taken her eye off the ball, and found out that he's developed a new way of sneaking behind her back.  He likes to search for escorts and relationships outside his marriage online.

A frustrated wife keeps catching her husband searching for escorts and relationships online. (Image Credit: Getty)

She took to Reddit a couple of days ago to explain the situation and attempt to find a few answers from the relationship experts on the site.  The man's wife said, "Recently found out my husband is actively searching pages for escorts/friendships etc on a platform."

"I don't want to give too much info as he doesn't know I'm aware," she continued.

"He's watching alot of porn also, we have an active relationship he's known for exchanging numbers/photos online in the past I've spoken to him about this and he apologizes comes off the platform then starts on another platform later down the line."

This has been his hobby for quite some time.  The married mom added that he's been doing it for several years and every time he gets caught he tries to come up with a new way of conducting his business so that he doesn't get caught.

The Wife Is Going To Have To Start Fighting Fire With Fire Here

Those new "sneakier" ways only last for so long.  She catches him, gives him an ultimatum, then when she's busy with the kids again, he gets right back on the sites.

Someone hopped in the comment section and offered up a solution to the problem.  No, not the waste of time that is marriage counseling or threats of a divorce.  Those aren't solid solutions to this problem.

A divorce might technically solve the problem, but where's the fun in that?  The commenter suggested that she create a Tinder profile or open an OnlyFans account the next time she has "an inkling that he's trying to hook up."

I like where this Reddit relationship expert's mind is at.  Unfortunately, the frustrated wife claims to have used these threats before.  She said, "I have actually used this threat before but its not something I could do."

Well, there's her answer to why he keeps doing these things.  She's not following through.  It's time to hop on Tinder and start swiping for a date or launching an OnlyFans to sling content to strangers for money.

This guy lives in the mud.  You have to be willing to get down there with him if you want to put a stop to his trolling for escorts.  It's really as simple as that.  Assuming, of course, that she wants it to end.